What friends are for?

Keep smiling, keep shining
Knowing you can always count on me, for sure
That's what friends are for
For good times and bad times
I'll be on your side forever more
That's what friends are for

Hearing those lines makes me think, a lot. I did remember that I wrote a friend post before in my previous blog. Wondering on the same question, what friends are for?

What friends are for? I need an answer, seriously.

Recently I faced a real life drama that cost some of my tears and a few sleepless nights. As I mentioned before, how should one treats a friend? Always tell them what they want to hear in order to make them happy; or tell them the reality but make them angry?

After I've gone through all the dramas with my sayang, Christie is whom I meant by sayang, in case you think sayang is my boyfriend. Anyway, she helped me realized (I think she realized it too in the process of settling the dramas) that true friends can always overcome those so-called-drama. In fact, I guess both of us didn't think that it was a drama, it was more like a lesson, helping us to develop a stronger bond. True friends can always take the truth without being angry even a little bit. I can still remember us, crying together, reading the post, trying to communicate, and got better together. She makes me realized that true friends are those who you can count their endless bad habits but still love them to death. We are all human and we are not perfect.

As I said before, the drama I've been through recently, it makes me wonder if I can still treat this person as a close friend like I did before. I'm sorry to feel this way but I couldn't help myself. The impact was too strong that it hurts my heart. The truth has been revealed recently and I felt like I was cheated on; felt like all the trust I've given all this while are all wasted; felt like all the effort I've put in the friendship has been demolished; felt like I'm just a nobody; felt as if I don't know this person anymore; or I didn't really know this person at the first place as I thought I did?

I'm disappointed; I'm sad.

I need advise